Choosing A Good Partner | The Benefits of a Checklist ππ‘
When it comes to relationships, making the right choice is key to happiness. In this video, Dr. Joe Laird discusses the importance of having a checklist when selecting a partner. Just like you need a plan for success in business, having a plan for choosing a partner can make all the difference! π
Hereβs what a checklist can do for you:
βοΈ Clarify what you're looking for in a partner π€
βοΈ Help you identify compatible characteristics and core values π«
βοΈ Ensure youβre not settling for someone who doesn't align with your goals π«
βοΈ Protect you from emotional pain by keeping you focused on your needs and wants πβ‘οΈβ€οΈ
π Dr. Joeβs Relationship Checklist includes:
βοΈ A person who loves God and shows evidence of their faith. ππ½
βοΈ Mature, disciplined, and emotionally intelligent. π§ π‘
βοΈ Loyal, honest, and a good communicator. β€οΈπ£οΈ
βοΈ Independent, self-sufficient, and confident. πͺπ½
βοΈ Has a sense of humor, a good personality, and is a team player. ππ«±π½βπ«²πΌ
He also discusses red flags to watch out for in a relationship, ensuring youβre not choosing someone who isnβt ready to grow with you! π©
Questions to ask yourself:
β’ What are you looking for in a partner? π€
β’ Does their purpose align with yours? π
β’ Are they emotionally mature and independent? πͺπ½
If youβre looking for guidance in choosing a good partner, this video will help you prioritize whatβs most important and avoid settling for less. πͺπ½
ππ½ Don't forget to subscribe for more valuable relationship advice, and share this with someone who needs it! Let me know your thoughts in the comments. π¬
Before jumping into any relationship, make sure you're clear about your goals, and don't forget to check in with yourself and God first! β¨ππ½
For more about what you should look for in a partner, check out my full checklist and resources:
π https://lgbt.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/175/2017/01/GSCC-Relationship-checklist.pdf π https://supportny.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/healthy-unhealthy-checklist.pdf π https://www.carepatron.com/files/relationship-pros-and-cons-worksheet.pdf
π https://medium.com/@doctorbecky/the-art-and-science-of-love-and-mate-selection-9b612ed7d4d3
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