5/23/25

Choosing A Good Partner | The Benefits of a Checklist πŸ’πŸ’‘

When it comes to relationships, making the right choice is key to happiness. In this video, Dr. Joe Laird discusses the importance of having a checklist when selecting a partner. Just like you need a plan for success in business, having a plan for choosing a partner can make all the difference! πŸ“

Here’s what a checklist can do for you:
✏️ Clarify what you're looking for in a partner πŸ€”
✏️ Help you identify compatible characteristics and core values πŸ’«
✏️ Ensure you’re not settling for someone who doesn't align with your goals 🚫
✏️ Protect you from emotional pain by keeping you focused on your needs and wants πŸ’”βž‘οΈβ€οΈ

πŸ”‘ Dr. Joe’s Relationship Checklist includes:
βœ”οΈ A person who loves God and shows evidence of their faith. πŸ™πŸ½
βœ”οΈ Mature, disciplined, and emotionally intelligent. πŸ§ πŸ’‘
βœ”οΈ Loyal, honest, and a good communicator. β€οΈπŸ—£οΈ
βœ”οΈ Independent, self-sufficient, and confident. πŸ’ͺ🏽
βœ”οΈ Has a sense of humor, a good personality, and is a team player. πŸ˜„πŸ«±πŸ½β€πŸ«²πŸΌ

He also discusses red flags to watch out for in a relationship, ensuring you’re not choosing someone who isn’t ready to grow with you! 🚩

Questions to ask yourself:
β€’ What are you looking for in a partner? πŸ€”
β€’ Does their purpose align with yours? πŸ”‘
β€’ Are they emotionally mature and independent? πŸ’ͺ🏽

If you’re looking for guidance in choosing a good partner, this video will help you prioritize what’s most important and avoid settling for less. πŸ’ͺ🏽

πŸ‘‰πŸ½ Don't forget to subscribe for more valuable relationship advice, and share this with someone who needs it! Let me know your thoughts in the comments. πŸ’¬

Before jumping into any relationship, make sure you're clear about your goals, and don't forget to check in with yourself and God first! βœ¨πŸ™πŸ½

For more about what you should look for in a partner, check out my full checklist and resources:

πŸ”— https://lgbt.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/175/2017/01/GSCC-Relationship-checklist.pdf πŸ”— https://supportny.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/healthy-unhealthy-checklist.pdf πŸ”— https://www.carepatron.com/files/relationship-pros-and-cons-worksheet.pdf

πŸ”— https://medium.com/@doctorbecky/the-art-and-science-of-love-and-mate-selection-9b612ed7d4d3

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